From time to time, the default TexLive repository does not work for me when I try to install a package using tlmgr. One method to get around this is to use a non-default repository, e.g., to install the listings package, we can
tlmgr -repository https://mirrors.ibiblio.org/pub/mirrors/CTAN/systems/texlive/tlnet install listings
Perhaps, the trick part is not to find a mirror, rather it is to write the correct URL. This example serves as a template for that